Relationship And Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD)
I know of one of my friends who had been from one of the most conservative families, had been excelling academically and vowed to the parents and other friends that she had and would always abstain from having sex, alcohol and drugs. The parents had no reason to doubt as she was known to tell “everything” to her mom.
Now, when she is an adult, she met with another friend of mine. They came close emotionally as well as physically. The boy, having taken the girl as a virgin, was surprised to see genital warts on her. The boy, who loves the girl, is now devastated as the genital warts could only have resulted by having sexual relations with a person infected with HPV. It is not the fact that she might have had sex with someone else earlier, it is the betrayal that the boy feels because the girl had vowed that she never had any sexual relationship with any other person ever.
It is no doubt that there is a great love between the two. However, when the emotional relationship added the physical aspect, the love relationship seems to be jeopardized.
The point I try to make here is that most teenagers become sexually active but face a huge risk for the future. The HPV virus and even the more deadly HIV/AIDS, do not show any symptoms for a long time. Therefore, one may not know if the sex partner carries the infection or not. In the case of HPV, the use of condoms may not produce genital warts inside the vulva, but may still produce them between the thighs. Oral sex with a person infected with HPV may cause warts inside the throat which can make the voice hoarse and cause difficulty breathing.
Therefore, it is not just having a “safe sex”, but having no sex at all only can keep you totally safe from the sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and teenage pregnancies that often are a result of an accident and the hormonal rush at the spur of the moment.
Teenage Peer Pressure
Like sexy grils, but so afraid to have sex with them!
If you are an adult, it is illegal to have sex with the minors.. so keep away!